Dealing with Heartbreak: A Very Special Episode of Geekdrome

[originx]

So we all know how unrequited love shot DannyT a kick to the groin. But I've learned recently that our very own Buxomia has been dealt that blow of the breakup.

So this thread is a two parter, one to share our stories of heartbreak. And two to cheer up this gal with stories of happy endings!!

(blow and happy endings without double-entendre?)

Anyway, post on with your loveless high school stories!

And Buxy, we all know you're a trooper and you'll bounce back in no time.

[sloppybunny]

Nothing a Box of Tissues and 20minutes of porn can't fix :)

Who hasn't got a break up story? I'm allways on the receiving end. Here's a couple of Sad ones, but true last moments.

After waiting for the first time to loose our virginity together she dumps me still a virgin only to **** the next door neighbour :)

Then the next girl told me she thinks she's a lesbian.

I also had a girl outright tell me I'm horrible in bed.

The last one told me that we weren't in a relationship for a month, although I don't know what we were doing in this supposed non relationship time. Because sex and dinner was still present.

So here's a couple of questions. Where do you guys usually pick up?

My hungarian friends go to sleezy pubs and pick up asian girls. I know a lot of lovely asian girls, but they aren't out at crusty dives at 2am. So I just watch from the distance as they do their magic.It is truly fascinating. One of them immitates Austin Powers as if it's an actual technique not a joke.

I have some friends that work at trendy clubs, but my sloppy atire barely gets me in let alone pick up those very attractive photoshoped girls on the dance floor (BTW that's where my nickname comes from ;) )

I picked up a girl at a strip bar once, but she went back to her boyfriends place afterwards, which I think it was for the best. Thank goodness we didn't exchange details and she was still drunk when she left.

If I meet strangers they are usually at house parties otherwise through friends.

Another horrible thing, I think I'm the only faithfull person I know. Everyone else I know has cheated on their significant other at point or another, even some of my married friends, and some religious people. It makes me super paranoid when I'm with someone.

I'm only sleazy when I'm single.

[iggystar]

For some reason I don't think Bux will have hard time finding a replacement. I'm sure half of you dromers would be more than willing to step up to the plate.

Hmmm, I've got so many years under my belt and could write a novel.I've been dumped, cheated on, unrequited, one ironic insult: finding out after the fact that someone was digging me strong, long after either could make a move, passing over a dream man only to marry an asshat later in life. You name it, I've been there.

Nothing like sitting on the floor playing Brian McKnight's "One Last Cry"; on continuous a loop for 18 hours straight to make you not want to even bother with love...but when it's good it's wonderful so we do it all over again. :)

[divadawg9234]

I figure when a relationship ends, whether it was you or him that did the ending, you should "mourn" for one weekend then go out and party :)

[djhyjak]

Ive never had my heart broken but i have broken up a lot. Mostly cause i think the world against me, I dated one of my models and she was the hottest on we had working for us, but then damn immagration laws forced my baby back to Panama where her ex boyfriend (the vulture) came back and married her .(im not bitter tho)

[originx]

.................Huh?

[buxomia]

Wow... I officially feel pitied. This was not a fun break up. He disappeared and avoided me until I got the message and yesterday I finally demanded we talk and he said no, that he just couldn't do this.

Funny how I'm 4 years younger than him but so much more mature. I HATE being avoided! Be a man and stand up for what you need! I would be much more understanding then. Anyway, this was an easy break up compared to others I've had...

Most break ups occur near or on my birthday, which is cursed. I hate my birthday, something bad happens every year. I've been broken up with 3 times either on my birthday or the day before.

I've also been broken up with through text message. TEXT MESSAGE! If that's not a big giant ***** of a man I don't know what is.

But yeah, I'm definitely not one to fall off the horse and stay off so I'll be fine.

[slowmtnsilhouette]

But yeah, I'm definitely not one to fall off the horse and stay off so I'll be fine.


buxi, you know youre hot... go out and get a man that deserves you...


as for me, i almost threw this girl into a mirror in the bathroom because she was talking shit on someone i was in love with... she didnt know im one of his best friends... this is the girl he picked over me... luckily my other friend pulled me out of there before i did something violent...

thats my unrequited love story...

[buxomia]

See, I would...but I have the problem of meeting guys. Contrary to what Seumus might say, it's really difficult to meet people in NYC. ESPECIALLY if you're under 21.

But this one guy did message me on myspace and was talkin to me and he's totally hot AND it turns out he's this comedian I've been checking out and have seen a couple times. How cool is that?!

[originx]

Wow... I officially feel pitied. This was not a fun break up. He disappeared and avoided me until I got the message and yesterday I finally demanded we talk and he said no, that he just couldn't do this.

Funny how I'm 4 years younger than him but so much more mature. I HATE being avoided! Be a man and stand up for what you need! I would be much more understanding then. Anyway, this was an easy break up compared to others I've had...

Most break ups occur near or on my birthday, which is cursed. I hate my birthday, something bad happens every year. I've been broken up with 3 times either on my birthday or the day before.

I've also been broken up with through text message. TEXT MESSAGE! If that's not a big giant ***** of a man I don't know what is.

But yeah, I'm definitely not one to fall off the horse and stay off so I'll be fine.


Hey, it's not pity. It's venting. So how long had you been together? And why would he not want to tell you face to face? I believe that he is afraid of something. Maybe he feels a lot more serious for you? Maybe he feels that he is indeed way more immature. It's interesting to note that you blame your birthday for bad stuff happening. When is it?
And maybe you should ride with a saddle and not bareback?

We are all here to listen and dialogue, not pity, fair enough?

[buxomia]

We were together on and off for a year. More on than off.

He hates confrontation, that's why he avoided me. And he hates hurting me, but you know what? That's not an excuse in my book.

My birthday is January 10. I only blame my birthday for bad things because of bad events happening every year consecutively.

[originx]

January 10 is practically the start of the new year! You daren't blame your bday on stuff because most people use the start of the year to change their lives.

Their loss, y'know?

[funnelfish]

This girl once cheated on me with my friend. And the way I found out was that I came over to her place for breakfast and he was in her shower with her. That was nice. Took a very VERY long time to get over that.

On to the good stuff. My current girlfriend wanted to meet me after she saw me play Puck in Midsummer Night's Dream. So her friend hooked us up. That's pretty cool.

[briangilmore]

See, I would...but I have the problem of meeting guys. Contrary to what Seumus might say, it's really difficult to meet people in NYC. ESPECIALLY if you're under 21.

But this one guy did message me on myspace and was talkin to me and he's totally hot AND it turns out he's this comedian I've been checking out and have seen a couple times. How cool is that?!


name that comedian!

[r3v]

name that comedian!Kyle Cease.

Sorry to out ya, buxi.

[buxomia]

Blake Wilson, just on the scene. I've seen him at Stand Up NY

[buxomia]

Kyle Cease.

Sorry to out ya, buxi.

OH please, that affair started months ago

Bogey Loenstein likes it rough!

[slowmtnsilhouette]

OH please, that affair started months ago

Bogey Loenstein likes it rough!

lol... i <3 ya dollin!

[originx]

See ya got the whole crew behind ya!

Well, most of the guys are behind you for another reason, but still there!

You need to do one of the hot ex-girlfriend pictorials like in Maxim.

booya!

[xxxthundercatxxx]

I don't know much about relationship heartbreak, but a good friend of mine died the other day on the way home from work. I've known her since 1995 so it's kind of a shock for me. We went everywhere together and now that she's gone I don't know what I'm going to do. I tried talking to Buxy about it and she just brushed me off to go play SW ep. III, so I figured you guys might have some comforting words or advice. I'm not mad at you though Jenny, you're going through your own ordeal right now so I understand why you were being so distant.

Edit*
I almost forgot, I called and talked to my step-dad about this today and he informed me that him and my mom were getting a divorce. Today sucked. I think Jonathan's depression may have been contagious.

[mormonrage]

That sucks, Thundercat. My best friend of almost 20 years was killed in a car accident over Memorial Day weekend this year. It took me about a month or so to get beyond the stage where I'd randomly start crying at any moment. Tough sledding, for sure. Hang in there.

[atomusk]

i love falling for ones that i have no chance in hell with, i tend to be the opposite of what they're looking for.

i was going out with this one chick a while back and she was cheating on me with one of my "buddies"

[atomusk]

yea i had a best buddy that died in a car accident too, a couple of months ago. it sucked hard, i still get teary eyed when i think about him.

[xxxthundercatxxx]

Wow, soo.... I was talking about my car. I'm sorry guys, I was trying to make Buxy laugh as we talked about this earlier and she just made fun of me for driving a Saturn. You should have called me out anyways as it's common knowledge that I don't have any friends. Again, sorry.

[originx]

Thundercat, that was a major faux pas.

I'll try to distract that by doing something funny.


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[buxomia]

I will love Thundercat til the day I die.

[bullgator2255]

I fell in love with my best friend, got engaged, then it was broken off (not just engagement but whole relationship) two years later when we went to different colleges and she felt that she wanted to explore new things. I have since made thing FUBAR between us by: her cheating on her current BF with me(trust me, its not that good of a thing), saying something totally disrespectful to her dying father, and spending a lot of time with her younger sister (shes in the youth group I help lead, and I gave her rides to her voice lessons) who now has a serious crush on me. That all said, I still live and die by the sight of her.

[djhyjak]

I can handle my own break ups pretty well but when my friends go thru it it sucks because its alway put on me to help them cheer up. And depending on the kind of person they are it can really sux.
One friend is real easy a trip to the all you can eat buffet , some angry music, and a trip to the Booty Clubs and its over , But I got one friend who likes to hang out all day and complain about how women are all b1tches and how we will die without them, then his punk azz goes and does some spoken word (i hate that crap) at a cafe . The funny thing is the poetry pulls all girls.
How would yall cheer up a buddy who's in the relationship dumps.