Hi, I'm A ew User... Privacy there is no save button.I'd like all my activity private please, i'm only here to learn for now

[xtacybyme]

Hi i just dropped by to check out the site, watch a few vids.

I'm trying to get my privacy settings to stick so everything is private. when i click padlock they all turn gold, i move to different section save, then go check my profile, then come back to settings privacy, and my name everything is greyed out?

Any tips please on how i can make my actions/personal info here private?
Thanks In Advance